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The couple met in 2022. They went hiking with her high school friends, their mutual friend asked him to join. He thought that the girl has a boyfriend so he only admire her without saying "hi." Conversation started after he followed her Instagram account. She is happy because he let her be herself. He is happy because he feels comfortable with her. They married to each other in 2023. 

I rarely listen to music, lately. I've lost interest of the pop culture since Justin Bieber and Selena Gomes are not going back together. LOL. Who doesn't know "Who Says" by Selena Gomez? Let me tell you, she is my generation gem. The lyrics are so powerful. It still helps me in some of my insecure days. The beats of the song successfully burning our spirit. This is called woman empowerment that she did. I am inspired to do it, too. I'll let you know, K, Selena! *hummin' : who says? who says? would you tell me who said thaat??

Love... is a thing that everyone searching for. We can talk about love for hours and yet we never find the right time to stop talking and thinking about it. 'Cause it is love, the mystery, the one thing that we looking for. What is love actually? For me, love is simply when you find comfort and serenity in their presence. We demand a partner who care about us, who wants to protect us from all the inconvenience. We want someone who wants to be by our side to support and helps us through the ugly day. We need somebody to rest our head and let us talk about anything that comes to mind. Pamper us with some comfort hugs and warm words. I can always picture of a man who brings biscuits and 2 cups of tea come to me and pat my head and tell me some of his theories and "everything will be just fine".  Love is a support system that have a sense of "object permanence" so that whatever happens they will always be there for you. That's love for me. What about yours?

10 Oktober 2022! Selamat Hari Kesehatan Mental Sedunia! Bagaimana perasaanmu saat ini? Akhir-akhir ini topik berita nasional cukup membuat resah, ya? Miriiis sekali bagaimana institusi yang bertugas melindungi dan mengayomi masyarakat malah menjadi penyebab Tragedi Kanjuruhan terjadi. Setidaknya 131 korban meninggal dan ratusan lainnya luka-luka akibat terjebak dalam ruangan yang disemprotkan gas air mata yang apabila terpapar bisa membuat mata panas seperti terbakar, gangguan pernapasan, serta kemungkinan jangka panjang mengalami gangguan stress pasca trauma atau post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Gangguan mental tidak hanya berefek bagi korban yang berhasil selamat, namun bagi keluarga yang ditinggalkan dan orang-orang terdekat juga memiliki resikonya. Saya jadi teringat dengan bunyi sila Pancasila yang kedua. Kemanusiaan yang adil dan beradab. Betapa komprehensif dan bijaksananya para pendahulu kita dalam merumuskan setiap sila yang bersumber dari nilai-nilai kebaikan bangsa yan...

Aku tau dari dulu, kalau superpower ku adalah being lucky. IDK, how God planned my life and let me being who i am and where i am now. IDK, how God arranged our meeting on that day. Menurutku aneh, kita kenal belum sampai satu tahun, tapi aku bisa ngerasa udah kenal kamu lama banget. A care, loving, clear communication, and appreciative partner. He's one of a kind. The one that got me thinking "I'm super lucky to have him in my life."

Film kesukaan gue…. Apa ya? Yang jelas romcom masih jadi nomor satu. Film cinta-cintaan emang gak ada matinya, sih. Terutama yang semua soundtrack nya bagus, jadi makin bikin film ini berkesan banget. 1. La La Land Haha di post sebelumnya tentang tempat yang ingin dikunjungi gue juga nulis ini di nomor satu! Udah 4 tahun yang lalu, tapi scene ikonik mereka di bukit dari nyanyi saut sautan gitu pretending that they didn’t like each other dah gitu dilanjut dance ONE SINGLE SHOT dengan latar pemandangan menjelang subuh, sungguhlah ***aesthetically pleasing*** Mia & Sebastian ini. Buat gue pribadi, ini film yang pertama kali ngajarin gue kalau ternyata ada film yang ending nya realistis tapi tetep manis. OST favorit gue: A Lovely Night, Audition (The Fools Who Dream), dan Someone in The Crowd. 2. Notting Hill Tau soundtrack filmnya udah bertahun-tahun tapi baru kesampaian nonton filmnya awal tahun 2020 pas baru langganan Netflix. Tentu saja nuangeeeesss, ampe gue ulang2 scene pa...